Heartbreaks
If you could see that I'm the one who understands you
Been here all along so why can't you see?
You belong with me
Standin by, waiting at your back door
All this time how could you not know that?
You belong with me
You belong with me
-Taylor Swift, You Belong With Me
Every time I listen to this song, I think about all the guys that I have liked and thought "man you and I would be perfect! If you would just dump your girlfriend, we would be brilliant together!" But like always, the guy never dumps his girl and I'm stuck with my "what if's."
I guess there is always a reason as to why I don't end up with the guys I like. Maybe they are just not the right ones for me. But there have been a couple where I thought "this can be great! Why aren't we together!?" I always end up getting hurt when I am these situations. I always get my hopes up and then squashed right after. It's devastating, but at the same time it is such a great feeling to hope! That one little inch of maybe is just enough for me to be happy, even if it is for only one beautiful second.
One day there will be that guy who will be the right one for me, but for right now I think the hope will be enough. Even if I can't be with the guy I like, I figure it's always nice to dream and imagine myself with him. And maybe one day the guy that should belong with me will!
- Caster Girl 25


margie said:
I think there is always hope, and then I think there is timing.
Sometimes the right guy comes along at the wrong time, and he just doesn’t seem right. Sometimes the wrong guy comes along at the right time, and he seems like The One, but he’s not. You’ll figure it out. It’s a big world out there.
But I agree. Hope is cool. Hope feels cool. I think that’s why Twilight hit such a nerve. Hope for the Edward, whoever that is, to whoever you are. Even if he’s dead…
xx
caster girl 16 said:
Every fairytale has the same moral–your prince will show up at some point. Just wait in the tower a little while longer. And of course, while we wait we hope. We write stories and songs and dream up dreams in the middle of geometry class, and one day the story comes to life.
Waiting is the hardest part, but it’ll be worth it!
susan said:
I agree …Hope is Cool…& it feels Cool…..and timing IS everything. But i’ve also found that when we stop looking , when we least expect it …..the timing comes together and the “right one” finds us.